My girlfriend has started to fantasize about another guy she has just started to be friends with with (I had a problem with that in the first place). She argued that it was a strictly platonic relationship, and since I have never had any doubts about her faithfulness towards our relationship, I conceeded, now she's starting to fantasize about him while I'm with her intimately, and her justification is that occasionally I still watch porn. I have lost a large amount of trust in her now due to this. I don't think the crime equals the punishment, and the justification is bullshit I think...
facts:
1)We have been together for about 18 months now
2)We were friends for years before actually dating (She waited for me to get over a particularlly bad relationship.
3)I am deeply in love with her, and up until the other day I had thought she was with me in that regard.
4)When confronted, she wants to talk about this, keeps apologizing, saying that she let me find out about this on purpose to make me mad since she was mad about my internet useage, even though I have told her that I would rather be with her then any porn star, and that I find her far more attractive, I get bored sometimes though when she's gone...
5)I have never fantasized about another girl before while I with her... ever.
6)She wants to talk about this, and try and fix it...
7)She says that most of the "document" that I found was made up to make me mad.
Question, should I:
a)stop watching porn, and hope that this all blows over?
b)should I break up with her due to this infraction in our relationship?
or c)should I try and work this out with her, as she wants even though I'm having trouble trusting her.
and last question... is it abnormal for someone who is in a good relationship to watch porn occasionally?