Re write your name, with reference to each letter, "positive" and "negative" characteristics, that you believe reflects on YOU.
Example,
Positives
S-A-M-M-Y ( Simple, Artistic, Motivated, Meticulous, Yearning to learn )
Negatives
S-A-M-M-Y ( Stupid most of the time, Anti social, Misunderstood, Monotonous lifestyle, Yup cant think of anything that begins with the letter "Y" )
and then spend a few minutes, reflecting on the negatives and sort out a way to convert them into positives. I sound like a Shrink !!! haha. Enjoy! Took me a while to define myself......