It seems the more in demand you are, the more of an asshole you can be to others. I've asked out lots and lots of pretty girls and I was surprised to learn that they ALL did the same thing. Why do they do it?
Basically, I am honest and straightforward that I find them cute, and would like to take them out on a date. As soon as I display any interest in them, their "game starts":
Many of them appear very enthusiastic and give me their number. And then INVARIABLY almost every single one starts leading me on without actually meeting up. Whenever she talks to me, she insists she is interested in meeting, but then comes up with all sorts of excuses why she's busy. Many of them barely answer.
Typical example: Friday girl locks eyes with me, definitely interested in me. I like her too, we exchange numbers. I call on Sunday. She says she is at WORK. I say cool, should I call you tonight? She goes "definitely". I call her that night, she doesn't pick up. Text her - no response. Two days later I text "Serena, how about a drink next week? I hope giving me your number wasn't a waste.." she replies right away "no, it wasn't a waste! We should definitely get together!" ... then I text her, excuses. A couple days later I call her, leave a voicemail, never calls back.
I mean, it's so simple to pick up the phone and say "hey, sorry, I'm just not interested... I'm sorry to have led you on." Simple. But they never so much as call me back, even if I specifically text them "look, if you're not interested, I'd appreciate it if you let me know". It's like all the beautiful girls in new york are playing by the same rulebook. By contrast, every normal (not in top 5% of looks) girl behaves NORMALLY.
I should also mention:
* I am a 26 year old guy
* I meet really good looking girls in NYC
* I am very tall and relatively good looking myself ... I have the confidence to come up to her where most guys would not, and express interest and ask her out.
It just doesn't make sense. It's not like she's holding out for a BETTER guy. If she's single has no reason NOT to go out with me. Yet she gives me her number and then delights in not calling me back.
Why do they punish guys who boldly display interest in them, by leading those guys on?
Why?
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And then, why do they complain that guys don't treat them right... how hypocritical is that :)